Lovers and Friends......

How often do we hear men and women say I’m single and happy/ and I’d rather be alone??? I’m tired of having this conversation soooo here’s my opinion and suggestions all wrapped up in one…

If your single and happy we don’t need you to announce it every second. If your in a great relationship no words are needed anyone that is around will just know. People who constantly have to shout out there relationship status are not happy. They either want to put up a facade to impress people just as unhappy as they are. Or they’re secretly really lonely, but pride wont let them show it so they just roll with “single and loving it” lol…

I’m currently in a relationship that is definitely NOT traditional, but guess what Im HAPPY. It works for us. Once I got pass society and what was pounded and programmed into my brain about relationships I was able to have a truly fulfilling companion/friendship with a man who’s in to me just as much as I am him if not more. We started as friends, which allowed me to see him in ALLLL lights. Our friendship made me love him even more without conditions….

I read somewhere that in a successful union you have to master forgiveness. …Already got my Bachelors working on my masters now lol

Today one of my friends asked me “why do we choose to date the same “type” of people and expect different/better results”? I think its because people love a comfort zone. Familiar things are easier to deal with (who doesn’t like easy lol). Instead of dealing with the “same old” I think people should look at themselves to see what they are putting out to attract the “same old”. Identify the problem, brainstorm solutions and make the necessary adjustments. Most people don’t want to work on themselves they just want to point fingers and say that there isn’t any good men or women. Lazy suckas.

Do what works for you ….Every kind of relationship is unique in its own way…Embrace it and step outside the box !!!!!

This goes out to all the men and women who's relationship status changes once they are alone lol

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Pop a bottle or something...

Man: Hey beautiful

Lady: Hello

Man: You are sooo gorgeous....do you have a man?

Lady:Thanks and no I don't or/ Yes I do  (they don't really care what the answer is)

Man: Well can I call you sometime?

Lady: No I'm not interested

Man: Why ?/ How do you even know you wont like me? / Don't be like that/ You think your all that/  I can buy you anything/ or the hood ninjas will even respond with "Fuck you bitch" 

Ladies how many times have you been in a scenario like the one above??? Toooo many times right? Men quit acting like you've never had a female before. We out number you sooo I'm pretty sure another one will come along ("girls are like buses miss one next 15 one is coming"unless its DDOT lol or a Sunday)! I think its fly when a man turns down sexual advances shows you have standards and your not pressed for pussy!Quit trying to get on any chick you see. Its cool to speak or compliment a women you find attractive, but after that keep it moving. You'd be surprise how that works she may even just offer you her number because you didn't do the typical thirsty male come on!!!

If I say I'm not interested its just that. No reading between the lines or trying to convince me PLEASE.  

Okay on to the social network dehydrated men (THIRSTY)! If you don't have the balls to approach me on the street please don't DM me on twitter or send me a message on FB!! If you poke me on FB it automatically makes me think your a creeper!! Who ask somebody out on a date thru DM?? I mean really if we are at that point you should have my digits already!!! Obviously if your contacting me on a social network you don't know me personally and I have no interest in getting to know you!! Now thirsty men here's a tip :

"Grow some balls and get a life" in that order!!!

I wanna dedicate this song to all the thirsty men in Detroit aka  the frontin capital 

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A lil parched

thirst·y  (thûrst)

adj. thirst·i·er, thirst·i·est

1. Desiring to drink.

2. Arid; parched: thirsty fields.

3. Craving something: thirsty for news.

4. Very absorbent: a thirsty sponge.

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thirsti·ly adv.

thirsti·ness n.

Im sooo tired of you THIRSTY ASS females!! .....Okay i got that out (btw I was screaming that if you couldn't tell). Call me old fashioned, but when did it become okay to be overly annoyingly obsessively aggressive towards a man you are trying to pursue. What happened to letting him notice you ?? That shit does not exist anymore. Im not saying its wrong to show someone your interested, but if they CLEARLY decline the invite then you need to keep it moving. Stalking him, his friends and family, showing up at his workplace , attending all his parties (that one tickles me) is not gonna change anything. The only result your gonna get is REJECTION (or u might get to smash the homies) POW...Ladies there is no better feeling to know that the guy you like genuinely likes you back so if that one dude aint feeling you oh well feel yourself #PAUSE  lol lol I had to do it...

FELLAS listen to me a thirsty female does not have a drink of choice so any little shot(attention) you give is gonna give her just enough to keep pursuing you sooo unless you like that shit...timeout on the friendly hello's, help at work, @ replies, smalltalk is sexting to a thirsty chick I'm telling you ( lol okay I may be exaggerating, but you get my point).... 

Pride and dignity are becoming non existent in the dating world. 

2 be continued next post Thirsty men.....

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Glass Forehead: Intro/ randomness

Glass Forehead: Intro/ randomness

Intro/ randomness

Whats up world!!! This is my very first post and Im very excited as my fingers hit the keyboard. I decided to title my blog Glass forehead because by reading you'll get a vivid picture of what going on in this interesting brain of mine!!!!



 Okay sooo lately Ive noticed how everyones "Gaydar" is on 10,000. Why is it that back in the day we never had to say "no homo" or "pause" ??  I guess because its soooo popular now you never know who is and people want to cover themselves?? Honestly its just silly and if you take those terms serious... you may wanna go take a long look in the mirror. 




Why do men cheat? "They" don't ....yours just did........POW......2 BE CONTINUED!!! lol



As a lady who prides herself on her basketball knowledge it burns me up when my fellow sistas try and play commentator and they have ABSOLUTELY NO idea what is going on!! Listen dude brought you out to the bar/restaurant/boyscrib because of how you look not your knowledge of the game sooo just   sit there and look cute.......You can occasionally cheer when you see other people, but thats it no words!!! lol 




Okay soooo thats just kind of a teaser of whats to come !! Its my blog I say what I want you may not agree, but you will be entertained or at least get another perspective!!!!! Enjoy xoxox