Trapping all Day no lunch breaks

Ever think to yourself how did I FUCK with this person?? You might've  been  a victim of a thirst TRAP!!!!

It used to be when dating people would try and take it slow getting to know one another , but now it's if you like my picture on Instagram "we go together" ! Now that is a little extreme but you get the point .  People are so desperate to be loved they confuse a harmless compliment as attraction or bait and most times that's a recipe for disaster . How many women post pictures / statuses / tweets / wear slutty clothing expecting certain outcomes?? i.e a certain number of likes or that one special person to comment etc .? I call these thirst traps!! Sometimes we set them and don't even know beware ladies ... If a guy is  to cocky or always posting what he's wearing or him spending money #thirsttraps looking for the right hoes to get caught up !! And guys vice versa if the bitch has one quote and all ass shots  #thirsttrap .

Here are a few examples of traps

Scenario 1 - girl post a beautiful picture , but the caption reads "looking a mess today" thirst trap fellas don't fall for it ... This bitch fishing for compliments and praise #fail


Scenario 2- guy always posting flashy pics i.e. money, clothes , bottle service (bitches love bottles) ootd etc ....don't fall for it ladies its all smoke and mirrors  he posted the money on payday and has on his friends clothes and jewelry just to take pics annnnnd he didn't put in on that booth or bottle ijs

Ladies and gents bottom line chill . Be bold enough to stand on what you actually have and who you REALLY ARE !!!




If you have any thirst traps you'd like to share please leave a comment thanks for readings dolls and gents xoxo !!!

Go Green

Lets clean up the dating pool !!

"If you're  unavailable quit shopping around and selling yourself polluting the dating pool" ~lolaflame

Today it seems that there are more unavailable people in the dating pool than ever. This bothers me because dating is already hard enough without married joes  out here selling dreams and nightmares. I say nightmare because love triangles are like a bad dream that reoccurs over and over until you finally wake up and remove yourself from the toxic situation !! The dating pool isn't only polluted with married /attached folks there are emotionally unavailable folks, too much baggage folks, BM/BD drama folks, Broke bitches , broke ninjas, I could go on but I'm sure you get the point ! All of those things and qualities automatically disqualify you from the dating pool.  How can you be looking for love but not Looking for a job. How can you be looking for love but you're still sleeping with your ex or BD/BM ? How can you be looking for love but going home to your wife every night ? How can you be looking for love with 5 baby daddies and 5 kids (whore)? Dating should be the last thing on your list!

It all boils down to this "are you REALLY available" ?? Ask your self that question and be honest if you're not right now then focus on getting things in order prioritize your life !! ... Write that down

Here's a few things you can do to help stop pollution ...

-Be honest .... With yourself first

-Check that baggage before you board your next flight          (relationship)

-Don't litter (take your trash to the dumpster and leave it there don't bring garbage from one relationship to the next )

I hope this enlightened you or at least made you laugh ...peace

xoxo comment subscribe and all that ...thanks so much for reading kings and queens :-)

Haitus

Hello world its definitely been a minute since I let you guys get a glimpse inside my glass forehead. Well I'm back and lets just say A LOT has happened and I do plan on spilling all the juicy Tea with you guys !!! much love stay tuned ....